I THINK I've SOLVED IT
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timeout 10
color black/cyan yellow/cyan
gfxmenu (hd0,0)/boot/gfxmenu
default 0
title linux
kernel (hd0,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=linux root=UUID=118c7d25-5f55-48cf-a870-f76db7e7de20 vmalloc=256M resume=UUID=041c81e4-05a2-49ac-9b14-cb4ad4d9053c splash=silent vga=788
initrd (hd0,0)/boot/initrd.img
title linux-nonfb
kernel (hd0,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=linux-nonfb root=UUID=118c7d25-5f55-48cf-a870-f76db7e7de20 vmalloc=256M resume=UUID=041c81e4-05a2-49ac-9b14-cb4ad4d9053c
initrd (hd0,0)/boot/initrd.img
title failsafe
kernel (hd0,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=failsafe root=UUID=118c7d25-5f55-48cf-a870-f76db7e7de20 failsafe vmalloc=256M
initrd (hd0,0)/boot/initrd.img
title SALIX linux OS
kernel (hd1,0)/boot/vmlinuz BOOT_IMAGE=vmlinuz-huge-smp-2.6.29.6-smp root=0341
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the 0341 I did after a Kernel Panic and a list of numbers of my partitions
now after the GRUB showing up, I choose "SALIX linux OS" and after several fast scrolling screens (and some "not found"s...)
I get the login screen
so I think I am OK (but pls tell me if I have something wrong in the menu

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my main problem now think is to make salix "see" my 1360x768 monitor!
(it only sees 960x... and half of the picture is off screen!!!)